tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427422437896868886.post2045934114285878524..comments2023-10-28T07:55:58.680-04:00Comments on Living Without Brenna: I FEEL LEFT OUTB's Momhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15884800524058312982noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427422437896868886.post-88781119300667969192008-12-31T11:37:00.000-05:002008-12-31T11:37:00.000-05:00Sweetie, I understand. We waited 8 months before ...Sweetie, I understand. We waited 8 months before trying, and with infertility and IVF, I wasn't sure if I could even get pregnant again. I would have waited longer, but I'm turning 35 in January...I felt like we couldn't wait. If we couldn't get pregnant again, I knew we would adopt and that process takes a long time.<BR/><BR/>Even during that 8 months, I saw so many people trying again and itForeverloveshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13391985814920303681noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427422437896868886.post-86593002775910728602008-12-28T11:13:00.000-05:002008-12-28T11:13:00.000-05:00I would have waited a while if I was younger, but ...I would have waited a while if I was younger, but honestly it was a horrible tick-tock that put a fire under me. I am almost 34, Ronan was my first child, and the pressure (self-inflicted mostly) to try to start my family was deafening sometimes. <BR/><BR/>Where ever your journey takes you, Holli, I wish you gentle times. I wish you had your baby girl here with you..<BR/><BR/>Love, ReeseReesehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05413272465193894312noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-427422437896868886.post-45631192222092540852008-12-28T10:21:00.000-05:002008-12-28T10:21:00.000-05:00I feel that way in my own way about other things. ...I feel that way in my own way about other things. <BR/><BR/>I know a few women here who aren't trying. But, yeah, most seem to jump back in. I think it was just a week after the stillbirth that I started talking about trying again. It was how I coped with the grief. In many ways not trying again, not immediately, is a very brave choice.Antigonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09206205690072218302noreply@blogger.com